Boomer #Grandparent Gift Ideas That Keep On Giving
February 20, 2014
Gifts from our grandparents can come in many different ways. They surprise us with the most unique gestures, ideals, thoughts, and knowledge. Our grandparents are our gateway into the past and the key to who we see when we look in the mirror. When we capture the stories, moments, and memories in our minds, from our grandparents, we protect what is our legacy in the present and in the future. How do we measure these gifts?
According to our guest author today, these gifts we have to receive from our grandparents are not always tangible, but sometimes found inside of them.
You won't find these gifts at the mall, at any box store, or on Amazon.com, but you will find them within your family heirloom collection for years, perhaps generations to come. Initially, their gifting won't empty your wallet or deplete your bank account, but they will become permanent fixtures in your grandchildren's lives. Nor will you find these ideas and items quickly converted from treasures to trash, relegated to the obsolete, irrelevant junk pile within a few months after they've been unwrapped; instead, you will experience their continued presence within family traditions over time.
The essence of this type of gift giving resides in the putting forth of items and ideas from within oneself, one's experiences, one's values. As such, these gifts are almost limitless in the positive, even life-changing, effect they can have on the recipients, your grandchildren.
Grandpa Bill spent almost two decades of his young life out west, where he became an avid hunter and fisherman. Of course, he was caught up in the whole Western mystique, accumulating enough sports paraphernalia to spark any boys' interest. In particular, Grandpa was proud of his collection of western belt buckles that he would parade out occasionally to admire their unique ruggedness. As he began to share with his grandson stories of his hunting and fishing expeditions, he wondered how Zach would react to receiving the buckles as a 'special' Christmas gift. The rest of the story is history. It was impossible to determine who received the greatest high - grandpa or Zach -- as the grandson opened the package. In fact, the luminous expression on Zach's face as he opened his treasures paled in comparison to hearing Zach say that, of all the gifts he received this year, "... the belt buckles were my favorite." Oh, and let's not forget the hour that Zach and grandpa spent together on the Web researching the colorful history behind each buckle. In fact, when Zach returned home, he announced that he planned to use some of his Christmas money to buy a small safe to house his newly received treasures.
Grandma Ethel has since retired and lives on a fixed income. She can hardly participate in or compete with the material hoopla that every holiday brings. But she does have an incredibly rich childhood past whose memories she wanted to bequeath to her one and only granddaughter Emily, for whom she provides after school daycare. On Christmas morning, amid all the traditional trappings of little girl gifts, Emily found within her stocking a ticket for a Mystery Tour Field Trip. Grandma had included a walk/ride map of historical sites that she and Emily would visit on their full-day excursion. Of course, it included a lunch stop at Emily's favorite ice cream cafe! On the day of the field trip, Emily borrowed a family digital camera, snapping photos at each spot along the way. By the end of the day, she had gathered pictures of the former chicken farm homestead, the waterfall where grandma used to swim, and the orchards where grandma, as a young girl, had picked apples, strawberries, and pumpkins. A week later, Emily and grandma sat down together and created a digital photo album, complete with script and music. And that's not the end of the story! The following week, when Emily returned to school, her Mystery Tour Field Trip was the Christmas gift she chose to present to and share with her classmates.
Early on in their marriage, the Ryans had the fortune to meet a young investor who turned them on to the power of compound interest and the potential of the stock market as an income generator/builder. On the advice and under the aegis of their financial mentor, they started small, investing in a modest portfolio of unglamorous but reliable blue chip stocks. Throughout their marriage they had fun watching what started as a tiny nest egg grow into a respectable retirement fund. If only they could instill their successful financial strategies and instincts into their grandchildren. But how could the dull and boring concept of deferring immediate satisfaction for long-term results compete with the shrill here-and-now sensual bombardment of TV ads, mall frenzy, and peer pressure - all beckoning to buy more junk? They had an idea! Early in the year, they purchased shares in two stocks of companies whose products target the early teen market. Over the year, they monitored the stocks' progress, recording their ups and downs on a simple spreadsheet. When the grandchildren opened their holiday cards, they found a summary of their stocks' results thus far, with a simple gift explanation. A few days later, grandpa bookmarked and shared a few sites where the grandchildren could go to experiment with various 'what if' scenarios of compound interest formulas.
Probably the most empowering gift of all is the one that the Martins gave their grandchildren several years ago. From the time the children understood the concept of Santa and Christmas and gifts, the grandparents began a tradition where, each year in early December, the kids would choose from their daily newspaper listing an anonymous needy boy or girl whose Christmas promised to be bare without the generosity of a secret benefactor. Then, with a portion of the money that each grandchild had saved over the year, the Ryan grandparents would go shopping for appropriate clothing and toys for the chosen needy children. It became such an anticipated ritual for both grandparents and children that, even throughout high school, the grandchildren insisted on continuing the tradition, and it's a toss-up to determine who most enjoy their annual day together - the grandparents or the grandchildren.
Yes, we, the Boomer generation who became the poster children for rampant consumerism, can reverse this 'give me' culture that permeates our society. We can, in fact, confront and confound head on the addiction to spend and to buy. Grandparents are finding and giving sustainable gifts that keep on giving, treasures that will yield a substantive, long range return on our investment for and in our grandchildren. Such intangible 'pebble causing ripples in the water' gifts comprise the stuff of which future family traditions and values are made.
In her former career as an educator and administrator, Dr. Marie Langworthy derived her greatest satisfaction in identifying underachieving adults, empowering them, turning them loose, and watching them grow professionally. Now in her 21st century life, Marie has 'shifted gears,' supervising future teachers enrolled in a local university's graduate program. Not one to shy away from multitasking, in her own web-based business, Super Writing Services, (www.superwritingservices.com), she exercises her passion to "write it right, the way you want to say it," providing her clients with a whole spectrum of business, professional and personal writing services. As editor-in-chief for New Cabady Press, she specializes in the 'spit and polish' process of word-smithing the next potential "great American literary piece"... or future NY Times best seller! She admits that she's still "a work in progress" - trying to determine what she'll do if and when she ever grows up and grows old. In the meantime, she continues to welcome the adventure of each new day.